Membership
Apply to join Top Floor.
New York’s most intentional, consent-forward, high-touch community for immersive nights, deep connection, and unforgettable experiences.
I’ve never felt more seen, safe, or alive. Top Floor changed what intimacy and nightlife can be.
Apply
Start your application
Takes 5–8 minutes. Keep your STI testing timeline in mind and have a social link ready. Payments and confirmations are handled by riseto.org.
Need to pause or re-activate? See options below or email team@topfloorclub.com.
What we look for
- Clarity around boundaries and care for others’ boundaries.
- Consent fluency; willingness to check in often.
- Alignment with STI and privacy policies.
- Community-minded energy: creators, connectors, nurturers.
We do not tolerate harassment, discrimination, or pressure—online or in person.
Why people join
Curated community
We welcome people who value clarity, kindness, and depth. Every member is vetted for emotional intelligence and consent fluency.
“It felt like everyone there was chosen for who they are, not who they pretend to be.”
Safety & consent
Real protection
Guardians on site, clear rules, swift action on red, and STI accountability so you can relax into the night.
“For the first time, I could breathe. The safety was real, not performative.”
Elevated nights
Immersive & intentional
Music-first energy, gorgeous play suites, aftercare spaces, and hosts who keep the room grounded.
“Pleasure felt both wild and grounded—unforgettable.”
How it works
Your membership journey
Apply
Share who you are, what you value, and what draws you to Top Floor. Couples apply together.
Vetting
Human review and an optional chat. We respond quickly and clearly.
Invite
Payments and confirmations flow through riseto.org with STI steps and consent prep.
Attend
Bring results, meet the guardians, settle into the briefing, and enjoy a consent-forward night.
Consent that lets you breathe
Consent & conduct
- Explicit asks, easy outs, and a swift stop on red.
- Guardians on-site all night; incidents documented and acted on.
- Phones hidden in shared spaces; no photos during party hours.
- STI results within 3 months, including throat swab for oral gonorrhea.
- No illicit substances; bartenders can pause service at their discretion.
Is this for you?
Who thrives here
- People who value depth over performance and kindness over bravado.
- Humans who practice consent fluently and respect boundaries.
- Curious explorers who love music, sensuality, and emotional intelligence.
- Guests who keep privacy sacred and show up for community.
What members say
Voices from the elevator down
“The vetting was grounding and respectful. I felt safe before I even arrived.
“The music wrapped around me like warm water. It felt like the room was breathing together.
“This community helped me grow into my own pleasure—gentle, loving, transformative.
“I could finally relax. Safety here is real, not performative.
Membership includes
- Access to monthly Top Floor events with curated themes.
- Digital membership credentials and priority RSVPs.
- Invitations to private gatherings and community channels.
- Clear consent, STI, and privacy standards that protect everyone.
Trust & timing
- Most applications receive a response within 48 hours.
- We keep your information private and never share it.
- You can pause or request support anytime; clarity comes first.
- Need accommodations or accessibility support? Tell us and we’ll prepare.
Pausing
Need to pause?
Life happens. If you need time away, tell us. We’ll pause your membership, keep you on the list, and support a thoughtful re-entry when you’re ready.
If we paused you for safety reasons, we’ll outline steps and timing for reinstatement. Safety comes first; clarity always.
Coming from The Play
We honor your history
If you were a vetted member of The Play, tell us in your application. We’ll transfer relevant status, keep any prior agreements, and still align you to Top Floor’s consent and STI policies.
Community channels
WhatsApp rules
Members-only groups, strict privacy, no unsolicited DMs, no double-posting, and no harassment. Violations can lead to removal from chats and events.
Ready
Ready to step inside?
Apply now. Your application is private, and we’ll guide you with warmth, clarity, and respect for your pace.