Signature Weekend
Members only. A private, sex positive play party weekend in NYC with music, connection, and play suites that stay open into the early morning.
New York City · Consent forward · Invitation only
A private, high trust erotic community.
A private, consent forward play party and erotic community in NYC where you can arrive fully, connect deeply, and explore what lights you up, held by people who know how to care for the room.
Top Floor is a warm, highly curated, sex positive community in New York City. People come here for magical nights that feel both free and grounded. Guests describe leaving with a full heart, a softer nervous system, and a smile that lasts for days.
You are welcomed in by hosts and guardians who hold the space with real attention, so you can relax, open, and follow what feels true.
Culture
Consent that feels natural
Our nights are designed so that consent feels easy and woven into every interaction. Clear asks. Simple language. Visible hosts and guardians. People who know how to listen. The result is a space where you can breathe and actually enjoy yourself.
Curation
People who give as much as they receive
Top Floor attracts people who are generous with attention, energy, and care. Creators, connectors, nurturers, and those who hold boundaries well. Membership is human reviewed and discreet, so the room fills with people who are there for the vibe, not just the access.
Design
Rooms that invite intimacy
Two floors of music, curated play suites, and quiet aftercare nooks. Clean linens, safer sex supplies, toys that are easy to sanitize, and guardians who keep an eye on the flow. Every detail is chosen to support comfort, connection, and play.
What your evening can feel like
A Top Floor night in NYC unfolds the way the best nights do. You arrive, settle in, start meeting people, and the room's warmth builds around you.
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Arrive and land
You check in with hosts, tuck your phone away, and settle into the space. A simple orientation and a few clear agreements help your body exhale.
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Easeful connection
You mingle at your own pace. The room is full of people who are kind, curious, and open. Social friction drops. You find your people faster than you expected.
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Music and movement
The music builds and you feel the room warming together. You can dance, flirt, watch, or simply enjoy the energy.
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Play, if you choose
When you are ready, you step into play suites that are designed for care. You talk about boundaries. You check in. You follow what feels alive. Guardians stay nearby so you never have to hold the whole container yourself.
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Aftercare and landing
You drink water, snack, cuddle, or simply lie down in a softer part of the space. You leave feeling more like yourself, and a little bit changed.
Event types
MARKED
A kink forward play party for members and vetted guests in New York City, with clear etiquette, strong consent culture, and more intense play held within the same safety and care.
Focused gatherings
Smaller, themed nights like Bi Sensual and other curated events that highlight specific desires, identities, and curiosities within our New York community.
We protect the space so you can let go
Health and STI care
We ask every guest to stay current on STI testing and to share recent results before attending. Condoms are required for penetration unless you are fluid bonded and have chosen otherwise together. We stock the space with supplies and reminders so this feels supported, not clinical.
Privacy and phones
Phones stay out of sight in shared spaces. No photography during party hours. Limited, fully consented photos are only allowed in narrow windows and private rooms. This protects everyone and lets the night feel like it actually lives in your body, not on a screen.
Consent in practice
We use simple, direct language. Ask first. Check in often. A clear red means everything stops. Guardians are trained to respond and document incidents so safety is real, not just a talking point.
Who tends to love it here
- People who value depth, kindness, and emotional intelligence.
- Humans who like to talk about boundaries before things heat up.
- Curious explorers who love music, sensuality, and discretion.
- Guests who keep privacy sacred and show up for the whole community.
What you can expect
- Clear guidelines, visible guardians, and a no pressure culture.
- Hosted suites, stocked safer sex and aftercare supplies.
- Shared responsibility around STI testing and health.
- Human, discreet communication before and after events.
Curated membership, human review
We look for people who bring generosity, emotional awareness, and respect into shared spaces. Couples apply together. Solo guests apply with care for their impact on the room. References help but are not required.
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Apply
Share who you are, what draws you to Top Floor, and how you relate to consent and community.
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Vetting and support
We review applications and may invite a short conversation. You receive a clear yes, no, or not yet. No ghosting.
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Invite and prep
If it is a fit, you receive an invitation with STI steps, consent guidance, and logistics handled through riseto.org.
Quick essentials
- Explicit consent at every step; red stops all action.
- Phones out of sight in shared spaces; no photos during party hours.
- STI testing required within three months of the event.
- No illicit substances; bar staff and guardians can pause service if needed.
- WhatsApp community is members only, with clear DM and posting guidelines.
- Top Floor events run a few times a year in New York City.
- Applications are private and answered by humans, usually within 48 hours.
How people talk about the night
“What an amazing, magical night. It was our first Top Floor event and the vibe made it easy to ease in. Everyone was so welcoming and warm. We met so many cool, interesting, beautiful people.
“Every Top Floor night has been amazing, but last Saturday was next level. I left with a full heart and I am still basking in the afterglow.
“We had a lovely time at the Friday mixer and Saturday's energy was unmatched. It was our first party in New York and it definitely will not be our last.
“I had so many beautiful moments of connection conversations, cuddling, and exactly the play I was hoping for. I am still on cloud nine.
Ready to step into the elevator
If this way of hosting and playing feels like home, we would love to meet you. Apply for membership and we will guide you through the next steps with warmth, clarity, and respect for your pace.